The Relationship formula.
This question was put before me some time ago: How did you and your wife stay together for so long what held it together: I didn't have any one answer for that question at the time. However I had not actually given it much thought until the H.S. (holy spirit ) reviled this to me, a few years ago this algebra formula, which is written and expressed as follows:
The meaning of
this expression translated as follows:
TRUST, COMMUNICATION, UNDERSTANDING over GOD, Equals=
LOVE HARMONY PEACE and PROSPERITY SQUARED.
It is
identified as the Relationship formula it is a Law that governs all
relationship on this planet. Let’s
take a look at the process involved, in constructing this formula.
TO SQUARE
In mathematics, a square is the result
of multiplying a number by itself. The verb "to square” is
used to denote this operation. To square is the same as
raising to the power of 2, and is denoted by a subscript 2
for instance the square of 3 may be written as 32 Which is 9
COMMUNICATION:
What is the first thing that you
do, when meeting another person, of whom you may have an interest
in? We communicate! There is an
open exchange of information that hopefully, leads us into the next part of
this formula; which is understanding
Our communication begins to build
an insight into The Who, What, When and Why of this person’s life.
This will either shut or began to open the main door of
your trust.
While keeping the screen door
to your heart closed and locked...retaining the option of slamming
the door in their face or leaving it "wide open".
Understanding:
is defined as: (1: a mental
grasp: comprehension) although this definition describes
understanding in short terms. I find that the combined
definitions of (B: and C: ) in the Websters
is more appropriate for the first meeting of two people: they are;
(B: an agreement of option or feeling:
adjustment of differences....)
(C: a mutual agreement not formally
entered into but in some degree binding on each side. ) Sound a bit legal, will maybe
so.....However we may vary well be considering this persons for a binding
contract of some kind. Whether it be for marriage or management,
companion, friend or business partner....in the end understanding levels out
the balance between trust and communications.
However there is one thing to
consider, while contemplating the use of this formula.
That is...the order in which it appears,
with trust leading this trio. Why? Although understanding may be
the balance between its neighboring components, trust carriers the
responsibility for maintaining that balance, between these two component parts, in
this formula. In the event of a disruption or destruction of
trust occurs in a relationship it would be devastating. It is
like installing four spark plugs in a six cylinder engine requiring six, and
expecting it to run well...that's not going to happen.
And here is the revelation of trust, once, this component has been violated, it
creates a point of no return, it is by far the most damaging infraction to the
relationship formula.
Therefore the next component in
this equation is the glue, platform and foundation on which this
formula stands. Insuring this formulas stability and
longevity. It is the spiritual foundation of God's principles,
practices and laws that follow a GOD mind set.
(A good news thinker)
TRUST
Trust is defined as: (A:
assured reliance on the character, ability,
strength or truth of someone or
something)
(b: one in which confidence is placed)
Therefore our communication now becomes a
search engine, seeking out the character and strength, of
this person. Which will display a confidence assuring the
reliability of their word? This will in turn begin to open the door
of trust. This brings us to our next component understanding.
"Now I know, somebody is going to
find some reason to argue with this; So let me take a shot at it
for you:
Question: Well what if you don't believe
in GOD?
Answer..."That's your choice!
But then you’re building your
relationship on a foundation of quicksand.
This to me, at least in my thinking....is like a Doctor who diagnoses a
patient with a fatal disease, but because he has no belief in a GOD like
mind set, he has no access to faith, in order to continue, he has come to
the end of his knowledge. In other words if you eliminate the
spiritual factor of the relationship, you eliminate your ability to move beyond
the boundaries of a physical solutions, to resolve what may be a supernatural
problem.
Copyright 2009 -2015 by Sheldon Green
on Green GCS Publishing
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